Well, My Fairytale Wedding is officially a wrap, and Mojisola finally got her happily-ever-after with the man she truly loved. But let’s be honest—it wasn’t exactly a smooth ride. Sure, Mojisola wasn’t perfect (we’re side-eyeing some of her decisions too), but let’s call a spade a spade: Dafe was the drama.

This man single-handedly crashed Mojisola’s first wedding to Lanre, caused a full-on disaster, and earned himself a beating from the groomsmen in the process. Sure, his heartfelt, “I love you” speech stopped Mojisola from saying “I do,” but seriously, Dafe—was this the only way?

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Let’s just say we’ve got a few notes for him. If you’ve ever been in a love triangle (or square, let’s be real), here are three things Dafe should have done to win Mojisola’s heart without turning her life into a rom-com gone wrong.

Be bold, not a professional friendzoner
For way too long, Dafe was chilling in the friendzone, acting like he was content being the supportive bestie. Like, bro, this is not some game—shoot your shot! Even Mojisola’s besties, Precious and Tima, practically handed him the green light, but Dafe stayed in “Bestieville.” Look, we get it—confessing feelings can be terrifying, but staying on the sidelines? That’s how you end up watching the love of your life walk down the aisle with someone else. Lesson learned: boldness > baking cakes in the friendzone.

Talk to her, not her squad
Dafe had way too many heart-to-hearts with Mojisola’s friends about how much he loved her. Like, sir, why are you confessing to Precious when Mojisola is right there? You think Precious is going to play Cupid for free? She had her own problems! Here’s the deal: when you love someone, tell them. Don’t wait until they’re about to marry someone else to deliver a speech worthy of a AMVCA award. Save yourself the drama (and the black eye).

Don’t ghost after the best night of your life
This one is the real kicker. Dafe finally had a moment of passion with Mojisola, and what does he do the next morning? Ghosts her like she’s yesterday’s text. Excuse me, sir—this is not how you win hearts. In another universe, Dafe would have woken Mojisola up with breakfast in bed, professed his undying love, and locked in his fairytale ending right there. But no, he vanishes like a magician, and then he’s surprised when Mojisola cuts him off. Shocker.

The takeaway? Don’t be like Dafe
Sure, Dafe eventually got the girl, but wow, what a long way around. If you’ve got feelings for someone, be bold, talk to them, and please—don’t ghost them after a magical night. So, if you’re crushing on someone right now, take a page out of this playbook (but rewrite Dafe’s mistakes). Go out there, make your move, and claim your fairytale ending. And for the love of love, don’t wait until they’re walking down the aisle to tell them how you feel.